Replies to 'Having a Baby Has Changed My Life'

If it were me, I would not be so eager to let him back in other then to see his child if he wants to. You can't make a person do what they don't want to do.  I would expect him to prove himself before accepting him back. You can leave the doors open for him to see his son but you don't have to have to be in a relationship with this guy.

guys like this are only out to get what they can from the female and until the women start standing up for themselves and quit allowing these guys to come into their lives and messing with them, it will continue. Now, I do believe people can have a change of heart but they have to seek out the help that they need, and do the work to prove themselves, they have to want to change and then do it. it all comes down to choices and we all have them.

You are stil young and I think you need to concentrate on you and your child. The baby needs to be your number one priority. Take time for yourself when you can even if it means taking a hot bubble bath while your son is sleeping, put him in a stroller and take a walk, enjoy him and at the same time believe in yourself and know that you don't have to take this guy back if he isn't being what he needs to be for you and his baby.

I agree that it takes two to make a baby therefore it takes two to take care of one, too bad that not every one agrees with this, both men and women are guilty of not taking responsibiltiy for their actions and that is so sad, especially when they bring a child into the world and basically walk away, the little ones certainly does reap most of the consequences when it comes to irresponsible parents.