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September 1, 2006, 8:53 pm PDT

I really hope this helps

Quote From: angienickel

I need some advice!  A lot has happened in my life, but my greatest joy has been my two little boys.  I must admit, though, children were never a part of my goals in life.  I wanted to graduate from high school and join the Navy, and then the ranks of law enforcement officers, but that never happened. I quit school on the first day of the second semester of my 12th grade year, moved out of my home state, found a good man, got pregnant and got married.  All of these things took place in that order!  The day we married, which also happens to be my birthday, we moved from Florida to North Carolina, overnight!  Three years after the birth of our first son, we were, again, surprised with a second son.  On September 20, 2001 my life and body was changed forever.  My husband, oldest son, and I was hit head on by a drunk driver.  My family, thank GOD, made it out of that car alive and well.  I wasn't as well as my son and husband, but I was alive.  The motor of our car actually crushed two bones in my right foot.  I belive that it is unfixable, and I have developed advanced osteoaurthritis.  My foot is not reliable, and I fear that my passion for law and law enforcement will be extinguished because of the actions of someone that drove while entoxicated.  I need facts and words of encouragement.  Please help, if you can.
I'm a big beleiver in the saying that if you believe in something, it will come true. I am a mechanic by trade and the most amazing thing I've ever seen is a fellow mechanic (not one I've had the good fortune of working with) confined to a wheel chair. His story is that at somepoint in his life time, he lost both legs from the knees down to some freak accident (i'm not sure of all the details) but still was a sucessful mechanic whipping around a shop in his wheel chair. He was my inspiration in continuing in the trade when I was ready to bail. I am  a woman in a male dominated field and have had to put up with some pretty pig headed people. But i thought, if this guy can do it from a wheel chair, why can't I? I can't possibly imagine how hard it was for him to adapt to his career. I find it difficult to do standing on my own two feet at times. I feel deeply sorry for your terrible accident. I hope you continue to invistigate ways to pursue your passions. I'm not familiar with law and law enforcement and all it entails but I'm hoping you can find your place in that world, even with your foot. If i learned anything from my wheel chair bound hero, its that anything is possible if you set your mind to it. I truely hope this has help lend some inspiration to you.
 


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