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Quote From: jettav

Well first of all, your husband is very rude and should not be talking to you like that. He should be loving and encouraging and helping you.I sure the heck wouldn't be encouraged to even sleep with my husband if he would to treat me like that, he's your husband and he married you and therefore he is suppose to love and respect you for better and for worse ,in sickness and in health. I would be having a talk with my husband if this were happening to me.

Communicate with him and tell him exactly how you feel and what it is that you need from him to help you through this. Taking care of a home and children has it's ups and downs as it is and you have an extra strike against you. I can bet that one reason that you do not feel comfortable in the bedroom is because of his attitude and remark to you. One thing that helps me in my everyday life is to journal( I actually have a blog) and I list 5 positive things on a regular basis about myself and my day. Do this and see what happens. Let your husband know that you do not need the negative comments for you are already experinceing those, you need to hear the positive ones so that you can think more clearly and deal with your issues with a positive attitude, believe me, it works.

You are not a maid nor are you a babysitter, you are a mother and a wife and you need to make this clear to your husband as well as start thinking this for yourself. Be kind to your self and if need to, seek out some help for your self to help you over come these negative feelings about your self, Hopefully, your husband will step up to the plate and be your safe haven as a husband but what ever the case, you owe it to yourself and your child to believe in yourself and to get on the right track with your life. You deserve to be happy and your child deserves a happy mommy and with you and your husabnd working as a team it is possible to be a good wife, for it does take two to make a marriage loving and lasting but it may take just one to get the ball rolling, go to your husband and communicate with him and hopefully he will stop ridiculing you and you need to quit ridiculing yourself as well......................