Quote From: ncurrierI know that.... BUT what I am saying.. is
If YOU both put in 50%. you are putting in half of what you can put into a relationship... HOWEVER if you put in 100% you are putting all your efforts in the relationship.. 100%\100% not 50%\50% do you follow?????
I believe I heard Dr Phil say that it is 100% / 100% -Both partners have to do their best in the relationship-
Also-to a previous person who posted very recently-Yes-you can have a healthy loving relationship if a partner has a disabilty- It is a matter of adjustment- and the partner with a disabilty can do alot of things-just DIFFERENTLY than before-
You give your relationship 100% (both of you-not just one person-BOTH partners)
(I DO follow-you make sense- As I said before-DP said the same thing-And he emphasizes the same in his books as well)
