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HI,

I also have been married almost 19 years in a increasingly sexless marriage and our children are 11 and 6.  We have recently gone a year without any action at all and I assumed it was stress of busy lives/work for him etc.. From Ajn 1 on more distant , critical and in MAy said unhappy six years. I tried everything he didn't want to try. REALLY long story short I am filinf Monday for divorce sadly but know it is thing to do for my emotional health and children's too.

You are seeing lots of signs that something is going on...Please trust your gut and I would agree with other person who said hire a PI-it is expensive but frankly it sounds like it would be easy to "catch" your husband and so maybe wouldn't cost  a whle whole lot.  I paid $1500 retainer and got nothing but name of girl he had a naked picture of on cell opheon and where she lives.  Never caught him and he is hard to follow all day due to his job.  Anyway if you got proof from 3rd party then you would have a slam dunk case for court and would get a better settlement or at least feel vindicated and not like he may try to mak you feel -you are inadequate not what he needs etc....just remember he made his choices so he has to take responsibilty for them.   I am sorry for you and me both!!!  No one deserves to be cheated on.... Good Luck