Hi. I wish you luck on your journey. May I make two suggestions that may help make your transaction from your past to now a little smoother.
1st ....If you don't have it get Dr Phil's self matters book & workbook. They are very helpful with things like this.
2nd....Find an Al-Anon group in your area or online. Even if you don't live with the alocholic anymore it will still help.
You need a strong support group ( ie the message boards) where you can ask , talk even rant & no one will judge you.
Alot of us have been where you have in some way or another. Yes, Dr Phil is great & Robin's book might be something ALL women need to read. I know it's gonna be awesome & can't wait to read it.
Good Luck
