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September 11, 2006, 10:03 am PDT
Thank you! :)
Quote From: chantymarie I feel the same way. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and just a year ago I found out he was cheating when I was pregnant with out first boy. I feel helpless. and he hurt my oldest boy alot. He started taking off with our only money. He started hiding his cell phone. He would leave for work on a friday and not try to return until sunday. I ended up having my baby 10 weeks early. I really know what you are going through. If you need to talk some more my email address is chantymarie2003@yahoo.com for a minute there i thought i was going to be ignored..i know how clicky chat rooms can be :). anyway its tough he now says he wants to work things out and there are days where i really think it may work? the other days however i simply want to boot him right out the door. i am done having babies i have four now so i got my tubes tied because i just couldn't chance any more accidents with this man..anyway what is it with being pregnant that men feel the need to cheat!!!oh it aggravates me to no end. i believe statistically that most pregnant women who end up murdered are from the one who impregnated them not to mention all the divorces that shortly follow a birth because he got caught cheating. my fear is not to loose him or anything like that my fear of staying is what i will loose for myself. how many happy years will be lost trying to keep this guy? aggghhh. i am so sorry you had your baby early...there should be law which allows you to sue him for any medical issues now or later and for pain and suffering! are you still with him? i hope your oldest is able to forget so that he can concentrate on himself and not your boyfriends problems..children sometimes tend to take adult problems on their own shoulders. thanks so much for your comments
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