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September 11, 2006, 6:40 am PDT

Man Stealers

Quote From: ledda5

I have endured a man stealer in my life. Sure it started out as a friendship, then grew into something more. The women take time and emotional support from your spouse. Before you

know what hits you she knows more about your relationship than you do. Giving her more insight

than you have. I say if you are feeling left out, then too much time and emotions are being given to the friendship instead of the marriage. It is common knowledge you marry your best friend.

Sure there are some exceptions, but both need to know where the limits are.

 

Absolutely right.

 

I would strongly suggest to any married woman who has another woman hanging around their family, to either put a stop to it, or have a conversation that states what the boundaries are!

I wanted to be the "cool" wife, who could handle the female friends and occassional contact with exes, but believe me, if I had it to do over, I would have chased that "church-going" little hussy all the way home to her "preacher" father's house!

 

Women who think they can be friends with married men are only setting themselves up. Either to be used themselves,  or to ruin someone else's marriage and perhaps a whole family.

 

My husband and I have been separated for 2 years, mailnly because of his "friendship" with another woman. We have two children. If she were really "just a friend," he would have been able to give her up, and not let our family be divided because of her.

 

By the way, I am not a head-case, and I am not an ugly woman. He just needs the attention that other women give him, and I need peace.

 

 

 


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