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June 15, 2007, 7:01 pm PDT

couldn't agree more

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Yeah...I know more now than ever before. I had to go through hell to get here..tho:) I have been single for almost four yr's.. now. I had a relationship for about four monthes, with some one that I met on line. Well..I thought that I had met my soul mate? Turns out that he was living with some one the whole entire time!! It has been the only relationship that I've had.

I would really like to meet "my soulmate", it seems that they don't exist? All the men on line seem to just want to.."get laid"??? I'm so sick of it.

  Why can't I just find someone who is genuine? ..where is he?:):)

 

I have been divorced for 15 years and dating never gets easier or better.

I wish men would give you half the attention after they "get" you that they gave you when they were trying to get you. Does it always have to be a game for them?  Most men just like the challenge of getting you, then they tire of the game.

 
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July 17, 2007, 10:37 am PDT

SO... similar!

Quote From: philfan46

Yeah...I know more now than ever before. I had to go through hell to get here..tho:) I have been single for almost four yr's.. now. I had a relationship for about four monthes, with some one that I met on line. Well..I thought that I had met my soul mate? Turns out that he was living with some one the whole entire time!! It has been the only relationship that I've had.

I would really like to meet "my soulmate", it seems that they don't exist? All the men on line seem to just want to.."get laid"??? I'm so sick of it.

  Why can't I just find someone who is genuine? ..where is he?:):)

Your post sounds so familiar...

 

How do we ever get past the "searching".. and think we are on the path of "staying"...

 

I met a man online and boy was I mislead... problem is, I fell in love with him and am struggling to deal with that. I truely feel so abused in this relationship. But I can't seem to even TALK to any men that don't have "one thing" on their mind. I thought that was supposed to die down at a certain age! lol BUT... why is is so paramount? AND why can't feelings accompany that?

 

Seems like men can move from one partner to the next without much thought. Seems like women are looking for ONE... one to talk to, spend time with, love and to share themselves physically with.

 

I just don't get it.

you are correct.. where are the genuine people?

Would love to hear your take on what you experienced with the online thing. Seems like it is so much the wave of the present.. in meeting people.

:o)

 


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