Quote From: marsandvenus
Hell-o out there,
This is my first time on the discussion board, matter of fact I just found this today after watching Dr.Phil. My husband has been diagnosed with hiv about 9 years ago, and we have been married for 11 years. He was diagnosed 2 years after we were married. The doctors said that he had hiv for over 4-5 years ago. I was blessed because I diagnosed as negative.
One of the problems that we have is our sex part of our marriage. My husband feels really bad about what has happened to him and our marriage, then on top of all of this he was diagnosed with being a diabetic about 3 years ago, which now he has problems with his impotence. This is and has caused even more problems in our marriage to be frustrated and he feels less than a man, because of this. I stay frustrated because I am able to have sex . I love my husband what would you do? He really is a good husband.
Honey, if you have a good husband stick by him. He needs you now more than ever. Being a diabetic alone is enough, besides being positive. You just be sure you are tested often also.
Can they not give him something for his impotence? Bless your heart. I know it must be fustrating for you and for him to. I will pray for the two of you and let me hear from you again.
Talk to the doctor. It just may be they can give him something that can help. Good luck
