Quote From: phred64OK, seriously! they were in bed together - 2 consenting adults - what in blue blazes do you think they were doing??? I bet all the tea in china that they weren't reading Dr Phils weight loss books!
Give your heads a shake! My word! You are candidates to buy swamp land in Florida!
Sorry honey to be so blunt - but I'm afraid you need it..
Sincerely Sandra from Canada.
I did read my previous note before I posted it, and I went out and came back and re read it - I want to add something because it sounds so harsh. I've read the other posts of the other women and I understand what they're talking about. I've been there too,- my ex husband of 9 years decided he liked blondes (I'm a brunette).
See, Everyone elses posts have been really nice and I applaud their sharing of their stories, because you do need to know you're not alone! BUT! I can't be a friend to you by idly sitting back and not call a spade a spade and not a shovel - there is a difference. You're going to have a tough time no matter what you decide to do - but to do nothing will be worse...
