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September 13, 2006, 5:50 pm PDT
Don't jump into anything without thinking about the aftershock!
Quote From: kwindshawnI have an aunt who was married 5 times-I don't judge, for sure. I think those of us who are divorced had the courage to put a stop to the bad treatment-I see nothing wrong with that!! I absolutely will never ever marry again, but I would like a guy who cared about me-there are just some voids in life that can't be filled-and this is one for me. I still don't get any dates-I have one now who I go out with, but he is just wanting to take me to bed-I'm thinking about allowing it, at least it's better than nothing-and right now nothing is what I have... If this guy just wants to take you to bed my advice is be sure this is something that you can live with, so that it does not add to your depression! Is he a true friend? A long term friend? Or just some guy who wants to get off and say see ya never? Cause if he even remotely seems like that kind of guy, don't waste your time on him. Not worth it. I can only speak from experience that having meaningless sex is not fullfilling and sometimes it only makes the void larger!!! Get out there and meet people! Make friends! Get out of your depression by doing things that make you happy! I don't care if it's going to museums, or garage sales. Figure out what you really love to do, and go do it!!! Men are great, but they aren't the end all and be all if they aren't with you as a true "PARTNER", and just there for the "RIDE".
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