Quote From: hotnychickWhy doesn't she want sex with you ( I am guessing you are a man?) (By the way-you read alot of classics-I saw your email) Anyhoo- Did something happen? Did you do something to make her not want to have sex with her hubby-you? Do you TRULY respect her? Do you abuse her in any way? Do you have good healthy hygiene? Nothing is more sick or unattractive than being 'forced' to have sex with a hubsand ( or wife-I guess) who does not bathe daily brushes his teeth and generally cares about his overall appearance- Know what I am saying?
The ego- Well....
I do not think it is a good idea for a man to tell or ask his wife to have sex with him to boost his insecure inflated ego- ( I do not mean you ) But alot of men think women are only on this planet for sex and for him to 'relieve'himself-
Have you asked your wife these questions? Are there health problems? Please do not be mad or yell at me-I was just asking and kinda sharing somethings with all who read this-
You may have to get really really real and hope therapy helps y'all-
and what makes you think hygiene creates arousal?? wouldn't it be cool if just because we had colgate fresh breath and pantene washed hair, our partners would become sexually aroused. do you mean to tell me that all these years of keeping myself in good shape, all it takes to arouse sexual desire lies in the toothbrush??? know what ' ego' stands for??? EVERYTHING GOING OKAY. for the partner who doesn't want to have sex, who no longer has the desire to 'go all the way', that's the world they live in, their ego. and despite all those body mists, perfumes, whitening toothpaste and all the other gook on the market, that isn't gonna bring woody back to life. i don't think most men use women to relieve themselves. what i do think is that men forget how they caught the attention of a woman in the first place. it was with flowers, and compliments. smiles and attention. but then, they forget. forget that a woman doesn't carry that button to push start arousal. and unfortunately for us women, the ones who lies next to that colgate fresh, pantene washed, gillette trac 2 shaved man, we just get to smell them from afar. and wish that they would make love to us. and by the way, what's wrong with reading the classics?? seems to me if more men would, they could learn a thing or two.