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September 12, 2005, 3:15 pm PDT
I was adopted
Quote From: kimbutton
Hi there,
As the adoptive mum of two boys aged 10 and 11, I say tell him the truth! We started using the word apotion in ordinary conversation from the time our boys were tiny. We would say things like "I'm so glad we adiopted you" and "wow, its so cool God gave us you to adopt" we have found that in doing this and making it a natural part of our conversations, we have never had a problem with 'the big question' we talk about it regularly and naturally. I guess the hard thing is putting aside the natural anxiety we feel as adoptive mums. But you know when they are little, they just accept it as their specail stoiry. We also made a book for each of the boys when they were very small, telling their stories.
I am 36 years old and was adopted at birth and I dont ever remember my parents ever sitting me down and explaining to me about being adopted it just was always a part of my life. I think that you should not make a big deal out of it and it will just revolve. But you have to let the child know they were adopted.
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