Quote From: karleen345i JUST READ ABOUT THE COUPLE THAT WANTS REGENGE FROM ONE ANOTHER. i JUST WANT TO SAY THAT i HAVE BEEN MARRIED TWICE, THE FIRST MARRIAGE LASTED 13 YEARS AND WE HAD 4 CHILDREN TOGETHER. THE SECOND MARRIAGE LASTED 4 YEARS AND THERE WE NO CHILDREN FROM THAT MARRIAGE.
ALL i HAVE TO SAY IS FORGET REVENGE, IT ISN'T WORTH IT! YOU WILL RUEN YOUR HEALTH AND DAMAGE HOW YOUR CHILDREN THINK OF YOU. I CAN TELL YOU AFTER MY FIRST MARRIAGE THERE WERE MANY TIMES THAT MY EX AND HIS WIFE TORE ME APART TO MY CHILDREN BUT I WAS DETERMINED 1) THAT I WAS NOT GOING TO TALK THEIR FATHER DOWN TO MY CHILDREN AND 2) TO KEEP ANY IDEAS OF REVENGE TUCKED AWAY IN A PRIVATE PLACE IN MY BRAIN AND THEN WHEN I WAS LAYING IN BED I WOULD THINK OF THINGS I WOULD OR COULD DO TO GET REVENGE. HOWEVER, I DID NOT TAKE REVENGE, IT MADE ME FEEL BETTER JUST TO THINK ABOUT WHAT I COULD DO. BESIDES THAT I HAVE HEARD THE BEST REVENGE IS LIVING WELL. NO MATTER WHO DOES OR SAYS WHAT ABOUT YOU.
IT'S NOT WORTH MINE/YOUR TIME TO ACTUALLY DO THINGS TO GET REVENGE ON YOUR SPOUSE, WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED TO HIM, SEPERATED FROM HIM OR DIVORCED. WE ARE ADULTS AND REVENGE SHOULD NOT EVEN ENTER OUR MINDS!!
Karleen, I'm very glad that you didn't say any thing bad about your kids dad to them. They wiil find out that he and his wife are all wrong when they get older if they are young now. Your kids will also resent the fact that their dad has bad mouthed you for all these years.
I like you never said a bad word about my son's father to him. When my son went to live with him at the age of 13 he found out for himself what his father was like. When my son was about 15 my ex started to bad mouth me to my son. My son told him to stop right there as I never said any thing bad about him. My ex was very suprised to say the least. He then asked what I had said about him. My son told him that all I said was that we didn't get along. There was no way I was going to tell my son that his father cheated on me a number of times and wouldn't work.
