Quote From: swissmickey
All I have to say to the butt in law problem is parents back off and support from a distance you will get much better results from your children.
To the married couples...STAND TOGETHER regardless...of "how much you may love mommie" or Daddy's little girl...grow up, be an adult and resposible for your own families.
When my boyfriend (which because we lived in Texas was my husband) said he would take his mothers side if things came down to fist to cuffs when we were watching a DR.PHIL show years ago.....I knew I was in trouble...When we moved up here to Chicago..the womans verbal abuse of me assisted to send me into a downward spiral in my alcoholism...THANK GOD...I hit bottom left him and am 2 1/2 years clean...she drove him in the same direction and now he is almost 1 year clean and we are best of friends....however.....the 3 of us are NEVER EVER in the same place together for the SECURITY OF MY SANITY AND SOBERITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remember.....You and your family first!!!!
My daughter just had a baby one week ago and his parents keep calling me asking what are their plans, where are they going. You know, I do believe that if they needed to know I do believe my daughter and her boyfriend would tell them. Now they know my phone number and email and will not leave me alone. Both father and mother have asked me, when are they going to have the baby christen? FOR GOT SAKES, THE BABY IS JUST ONE WEEK OLD!
