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September 20, 2006, 6:46 am PDT

Speak on it!

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I was dumped 9 years ago by a man who I thought loved me. He lied, left me with a child to raise alone and I wish every day that he would get hit by a bus.  He does nothing for us, never sees his child and his family could care less about us. It's all well and good to tell someone to get over it and let the pain and anger go away when this happens to you, but revenge would still feel sweet to me!   I have never been on the site but I would feel much better if I could warn another woman to steer clear of him. I wish I would have known what I know now 9 years ago.  I think the site is a good idea if it saves one woman from the heartbreak that I have had to endure.  And to the men who feel the site is harassing - if they have nothing to hide then they should have nothing to worry about!!! 
I attempted to file something on Dontdatehimgirl.com about my ex but my computer wasn't working.  So I did the next best thing-- I posted a vague comment on his website and vented about it on my own page.  I was contacted by his live-in girlfriend about a month ago and I am sure they are still together since they both have children that I had no clue about AND the home and cars that I thought were his were really someone elses.  He also made promises to my mother that he did not keep.   Yes, revenge is kinda bad but it feels great and is just temporary.  What is really great about dontdatehimgirl.com  is that it's a network of betrayed women who can just vent--- what we are pretty much doing on this Dr.Phil site.  Plus the accused guys can post their version of the story.  It's all about motive---- my motive was to tell women about him and how stupid I was for falling for him.  I wasn't into "harming" him but more or less of saving someone else from the heartache.  if u want to call women who speak the truth and warn other women about the men who have betrayed them jr-high-chicks, so be it.  Its so jr-high for a man to not be honest and cheat and sleep with 7 other females and lie about the existance of his children.  AND I do feel absolutely better about the situation-- at least I know I am not alone and hearing other women's stories definitely allowed me to move on. Telling people to get a life is not helping at all.   If the haters of dontdatehimgirl.com don't understand that, then don't go to the website.
 
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September 20, 2006, 7:52 pm PDT

09/20 Revenge of the Exes

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I was dumped 9 years ago by a man who I thought loved me. He lied, left me with a child to raise alone and I wish every day that he would get hit by a bus.  He does nothing for us, never sees his child and his family could care less about us. It's all well and good to tell someone to get over it and let the pain and anger go away when this happens to you, but revenge would still feel sweet to me!   I have never been on the site but I would feel much better if I could warn another woman to steer clear of him. I wish I would have known what I know now 9 years ago.  I think the site is a good idea if it saves one woman from the heartbreak that I have had to endure.  And to the men who feel the site is harassing - if they have nothing to hide then they should have nothing to worry about!!! 

 Are you to blame at all for this failed relationship?  Would you bash yourself in the same sentence you bashed him in?  What about if you were the one driving the bus that you wish so badly to hit him, would two wrongs make a right?
 
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September 20, 2006, 8:17 pm PDT

09/20 Revenge of the Exes

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I was dumped 9 years ago by a man who I thought loved me. He lied, left me with a child to raise alone and I wish every day that he would get hit by a bus.  He does nothing for us, never sees his child and his family could care less about us. It's all well and good to tell someone to get over it and let the pain and anger go away when this happens to you, but revenge would still feel sweet to me!   I have never been on the site but I would feel much better if I could warn another woman to steer clear of him. I wish I would have known what I know now 9 years ago.  I think the site is a good idea if it saves one woman from the heartbreak that I have had to endure.  And to the men who feel the site is harassing - if they have nothing to hide then they should have nothing to worry about!!! 
But don't you see that revenge does no one any good?  If this guy doesn't care about you or your child, why spend so much time worrying about him?  Get on with your life and enjoy your child.  Your hatred for this man and quest for revenge will only distract you from your duties as this child's only caring parent.  It will also distract you from getting what you really want out of life.  Move on and realize that this guy will be paying every day of his life by not being smart enough and mature enough to share in the joy that his child could bring him. You on the other hand have been spared a life with an uncaring thoughtless person.  You have already won.
 
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