Quote From: westmoneypitI have been married for 16 years and have 3 kids. We have our issues like everyone does. Stress, jobs, self esteem, relationship challenges, kids issues, etc... but, we found romance again by finding something to do together that we both love. We purchased a motorcycle. We found that buying one, we can be out together, talk about our days, and just get out away from everything. We can still ride with others, so we can have mutual friends. While we are going down the rode, it is just her and I even if we are riding in a group. It has caused some excitement in the bedroom as well. I can ask her to wear her chaps to bed for me, dress up like my naughty biker girl, so we can even use the attire for role playing. Buying the motorcyle has been one of the best things we ever did together. As you can tell from the story, the key to the success has been: spending more time together, communicating with each other more, and getting around other people who like what we like. The extra benefit has been the renewed sex life and excitement that comes with that. We have learned from other people's realtionships failures that you must do more together, not less to get along. Good luck to everyone.
my hubby and i are having that issue right now...he is angry with me right now and that means that he will not be speaking to me for at least a week and then he will finally explode and it will all be because he did not get sex when he thought was due...at least that is the impression that I get....I hate not knowing what he is thinking...but on the other hand, if he is going to act like a child and not sleep in our bed and not speak to me...I feel like that when he does not get what he wants, he just starts to whine....but I am going to act my age and just let him get over it....I know that my husbnad would like for me to do the same that your wife does for you, but i am not confidnet enuff in myself to do that...we have been married for almost 6 years now and have two kids...sometimes i think that he is comparing me to the women that he spends time looking at when he is online checkin out the porn!!!! if this relates to anyone,please respond
