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September 19, 2006, 6:53 am PDT
 Quote From: kattdream Revenge...Why bother? I mean let's be honest here..I keep reading people say they went out with every jerk blah blah..Give me a break is everyone that much in denial? How is it that these people are able to treat you like jerks unless you let them. More so, why did you stick around for the treatment. I think if you keep going out with Jerks, it;s because you like them. Or you like the treatment. Insecurities will keep you with jerks too. If your man/women is fooling around with others...you know it. More so even, why the heck did you stick around? Even if you are married, why would you want to be with them...FEAR is why. I think we need to look at ourselves more and try to figure out exactly why WE keep going out with the jerks. Most times, you will find it is because you don't really believe that you deserve better, or you are so insecure that the kind of treatment you receive is what you are use to....Revenge...that's juts stupid and immature. Emotional maturity is something learned and something we should all strive for. Revenge, makes you only look bad, feel bad and solves nothing. If you feel so much that you need revenge, it is usually because you feel stupid, embarrassed and mislead....once again....that was your choice and your choice to live in fantasy not reality...the signs are always there. It is very dangerous to live in a fantasy world, you will always only see what you want to see. Revenge.....one of the worst things for your soul....by the way Cyber bullying has pushed teens to suicide, dropping out of school and even to hurt others. To have a website that allows slander against people is horrible and for me being only 32 I think it is a tragedy for our society to accept this. This web site is something that could potentially damage someone. It is also saying that people can not and or will not ever change....Sad.... Wow!! What an intersting post- No really!
I for one am NOT in denial- I know what I am worth and what I deserve-
Dr Phil has also said many many times that 'PAST BEHAVIOR PREDICTS FUTURE BEHAVIOR" and the real reality is that most people like that do NOT change- That is the reality-and that is sad-
You sound upset-and you are entitled to what you say- but I want to share the truth -the majority of the truth -with you and those others who may read this-
I personally think this is a GREAT website to have and I am glad it is here-and so are many others-
No one is slandering any one-They are just sharing their horrible experiences of what thy went thru-to heal and to help others as well- I mean I learned ALOT and took notes as well-
I thankfully do not live in a fantasty word- Nothing gets by me- I am very careful and very smart and very much living in reality-
Sounds like you are just a bit angry at something- I mean you really sounded off here-
This is not a confrontation towards you at all-
You did say alot of harsh things and alot is not even true-Keep listening to Dr Phil and be positive and be real-
Like the good Dr said yesterday-I love this- Get real or get gone-
Wish you well-
NY
PS- A guy who has a history of treating women badly do it to the next one-I have gotten advice and help on that-They DO not change- There are many other boards that talk about this very issue- And- I read and heard several sources say that most men can not handle a true quality great woman out there- Most of the time-it is not the woman they meet-it is they GUY himself- That is the truth- and so many others have said that- I will not tolerate crap from any one and boy do they HATE it- Most men are jerks and alot will admit that-
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