Replies to '01/01 Revenge of the Exes'

The reason I am here is because it is an interesting topic. I find it interesting that people will go this far to hurt someone else when at that point, it does not matter anyway. How can making a ex's life miserable be good for ones  life? How can a site that posts bad things about somebody else be helping others? Would you like it if someone posted something bad about you on the internet for everyone to read just because they were unhappy with a relationship that did not work out? You might have had good reason to leave. And your side of the story story is not allowed to be heard? Someone just does a slander job on you and that is it?  And if someone does give false information about somebody on this site, how can that be helping the person reading the information? If somebody really likes someone thats a schmuck, their behavior will eventually surface. I'm not against background checks to see if someone has a history of being in trouble with the law. My happiness is my responsibility and if someone dissappoints me, then that is between me and them. Not the whole internet world. And I will not be posting any billboards any time soon. Which is why I stay with my claim that it takes a "Winner" to accept and move on. And it takes a "Loser" to go on the internet and write things about someone in anger. Because that someone is sombody elses child, and might even have kids themselves.

I'm confused!  Who is it helping?   and How is it helping? 

Hurting people hurt people.  And not just the people they talk about- it can also hurt the persons family. 

The comments that the women write are their perspective, not necessarily reality.  I wonder if the women ever think about what, if anything, their contribution to the break up was?  I find it hard to believe that when it comes to dating that there are so many female "victims" in the world.  It's quite possible that the woman found out who the man was with her, not necessarily who he is or will be with someone with a different personality, character, lifestyle, etc.