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September 22, 2006, 7:16 am PDT
can't hurt a fly almost.
Quote From: kiwichatterbox Woman are tricky creatures and old habits die hard. If she has been hurt in the past that badly then she will be very wary of people now. Fear is a hard thing to compete with. Maybe she has found herself getting closer to you and is worried about how it will turn out. The past is a good indicator of the future...pretty sure Dr.Phil says something similar ;) so if you have done things in the past that may indicate to her that she might have something to worry about then it will take a lot to prove that you wont hurt her. Just be there for her, dont rush her and let her come to you. If you dont force anything on her and let her make the decisions about how fast and far things go then she might feel she can trust you because you arent pushing her to do anything. Hope this helps some. I have never hurt anyone in my past or present either. Ihave show her I am a gentlemen ,and respect her worth, and feelings as a human. I have given her time to get close, and tofeel comfortable with me. Like I said we have done some things that I was surprized to see her do. We have gotten close, but I am not telling the details. I want her to know she is safe with me. I tell her she is. She feels I will fall back into some of my bad habits to I guess ,and she don't listen to me when I tell her those days have been long past, and over. I guess I will just let her have the time she needs to be herself again some day. Thanks for the great info.
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