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September 24, 2006, 7:47 am PDT
So true
Quote From: amylynn00000Well I have a relationship that has lots of sex but it is the type of sex that you don't want. It's the "wam bam thank you mam" type. He just hurries up and does his thing and he's done, there's no spice, no change, no variety, there's nothing. I have tried to talk to him about it but it seems like he doesn't care or maybe he just thinks he's so good that I am just playing. But honestly a girl would like some foreplay or something. Anything is better than the "aight I'm done" I've been getting. It's weird because he expects oral sex and things like that from me but yet will never return the favor. He always says, "I don't do that!", so does anyone have an idea on how to change my selfish lover to a generous lover? I think every woman in america has experienced this once (or alot) in her lifetime. Men are very visually stimulated. Women on the other hand need a lot of "help" to get aroused. I too asked my husband for some forplay and I was told to enjoy it for what it is. It is the passion that we are missing in our lives. When he asks for oral sex tell him "me first"! If he says he doesn't do that , then you say neither do I. He should get the message. We have to remember that we are not mind readers so we have to tell eachother what we want. What do you have to loose? Tell him EXACTLY what you want. Try it and you will either get it or you won't. Hope this helps you!
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