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September 23, 2006, 7:30 pm PDT

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This may be coming from left field but maybe the trouble with the kids in the suburbs is the suburbs themselves. There is no town, community, or extended families to which children belong. If it takes a village to raise a child how do you raise a child without the village. Cars give young people far too much power and the ability to be alone and unsupervised by adults. Worse still is the measure of affluence that gives older children far too much free time when they should be studying, doing chores, working part time, or playing sports. Not sports of the organized and regulated but being outside doing healthy stuff. Where does a kid go to hang out when you live in the burbs and the kid is bored to death? We say we are buying homes to raise our families but are we building communities for them? Are there youth centers where kids can go to play or get help with their homework? And how will they get there? Maybe the suburbs we invented in the 50's are a poor substitute for the communities they left behind. I raised my kids in big city by choice. I live in a community within it where my children where known by name and people knew where I lived. I knew where they liked to hang out, where they played touch football and where they were after school. I knew their parents and teachers. My apartment was a hub of activity for board games and potato chips or just hanging out watching TV. My point is that kids used to have a place to be and plenty of people around to keep them out of trouble. We called them parents. Aurea Andino
i agree with you,there is no place safe kdis to go any more we think so much of a strip mall going up not the kids,if there weas a place kids cant afford to use it this is why so many kids or out roaming streets with nothing to do cause there is no where for them to go.
 
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September 28, 2006, 7:27 am PDT

Amen and amen!!!

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This may be coming from left field but maybe the trouble with the kids in the suburbs is the suburbs themselves. There is no town, community, or extended families to which children belong. If it takes a village to raise a child how do you raise a child without the village. Cars give young people far too much power and the ability to be alone and unsupervised by adults. Worse still is the measure of affluence that gives older children far too much free time when they should be studying, doing chores, working part time, or playing sports. Not sports of the organized and regulated but being outside doing healthy stuff. Where does a kid go to hang out when you live in the burbs and the kid is bored to death? We say we are buying homes to raise our families but are we building communities for them? Are there youth centers where kids can go to play or get help with their homework? And how will they get there? Maybe the suburbs we invented in the 50's are a poor substitute for the communities they left behind. I raised my kids in big city by choice. I live in a community within it where my children where known by name and people knew where I lived. I knew where they liked to hang out, where they played touch football and where they were after school. I knew their parents and teachers. My apartment was a hub of activity for board games and potato chips or just hanging out watching TV. My point is that kids used to have a place to be and plenty of people around to keep them out of trouble. We called them parents. Aurea Andino
I couldn't agree with you more!!!  Both parents (if there even ARE two parents, with the current divorce rate) work, and for what?  To pay for the car to get them to work, the gas to put in it, the clothes to wear to work, the food they buy while at work, and the McMansion in the 'burbs that sits empty all day; maybe a vacation to get away from the work and the house!!!  Kids are packed off to daycare the minute they're born; "relationships" are on the world wide web.  Dogs are "crated" and left alone in a room all day (they used to run free; remember not too long ago)?  "Families" eat out of a microwave or fast food place at all different times, alone in front of a TV or computer.  We even have four-car garages in the front of the house (remember porches???) so we can sail right in and close it without ever seeing a neighbor.  Kids are told to come home from school and lock the door; it's dangerous outside!!!  Folks, humans weren't made to live this way; it's no wonder everyone's unhappy and on Prozac in American society today -- just take a look around.  If there were one city in this country that was still living the way people did in the 50s, believe you me I'd move there...  I wouldn't be typing this right now, but that's okay...  I'd be reading books, playing music, enjoying fresh air, eating real food, living a less stressed-out life.
 
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October 2, 2006, 6:52 pm PDT

YOU ARE IN LEFT FIELD

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This may be coming from left field but maybe the trouble with the kids in the suburbs is the suburbs themselves. There is no town, community, or extended families to which children belong. If it takes a village to raise a child how do you raise a child without the village. Cars give young people far too much power and the ability to be alone and unsupervised by adults. Worse still is the measure of affluence that gives older children far too much free time when they should be studying, doing chores, working part time, or playing sports. Not sports of the organized and regulated but being outside doing healthy stuff. Where does a kid go to hang out when you live in the burbs and the kid is bored to death? We say we are buying homes to raise our families but are we building communities for them? Are there youth centers where kids can go to play or get help with their homework? And how will they get there? Maybe the suburbs we invented in the 50's are a poor substitute for the communities they left behind. I raised my kids in big city by choice. I live in a community within it where my children where known by name and people knew where I lived. I knew where they liked to hang out, where they played touch football and where they were after school. I knew their parents and teachers. My apartment was a hub of activity for board games and potato chips or just hanging out watching TV. My point is that kids used to have a place to be and plenty of people around to keep them out of trouble. We called them parents. Aurea Andino

AUREA,

You are coming WAY out of left field.  Our kids are not bored to death, there are places for them to hang.  These kids are not afraid to walk, as a matter of fact none of them have/had their driver's license!  We know whose kids are whose, who their teachers are etc.  You should not judge when you have such little information, and I pray to God that you never have to go through something like this with YOUR children.

 
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October 3, 2006, 9:49 pm PDT

09/27 Generation Rx

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This may be coming from left field but maybe the trouble with the kids in the suburbs is the suburbs themselves. There is no town, community, or extended families to which children belong. If it takes a village to raise a child how do you raise a child without the village. Cars give young people far too much power and the ability to be alone and unsupervised by adults. Worse still is the measure of affluence that gives older children far too much free time when they should be studying, doing chores, working part time, or playing sports. Not sports of the organized and regulated but being outside doing healthy stuff. Where does a kid go to hang out when you live in the burbs and the kid is bored to death? We say we are buying homes to raise our families but are we building communities for them? Are there youth centers where kids can go to play or get help with their homework? And how will they get there? Maybe the suburbs we invented in the 50's are a poor substitute for the communities they left behind. I raised my kids in big city by choice. I live in a community within it where my children where known by name and people knew where I lived. I knew where they liked to hang out, where they played touch football and where they were after school. I knew their parents and teachers. My apartment was a hub of activity for board games and potato chips or just hanging out watching TV. My point is that kids used to have a place to be and plenty of people around to keep them out of trouble. We called them parents. Aurea Andino

And the 60's and 70's were so much better?  Back then it was almost impossible for a teenager NOT have a job or help out at home and people found plenty of time to use drugs. 

 

It doesn't matter where you live, in suburbs, the country, or under a bus, drugs are available every where.

 

At least now we have the knowledge and resources available to help our kids. Rehab was unheard of not to long ago.

 


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