Quote From: dkb1031I Think Jessica will come clean about the affair, but she will continue to try to play the victim in this relationship. She knows exactly how to push Todds' buttons, and Todd knows how to push hers. They are both too selfish to think about the children, and I don't feel they should stay together. I think the relationship is doing the children more harm than good. It doesn't teach the boys how to relate to a women, and it is letting Jessica and Todd try to use the children as objects to use against each other.
After watching the show today, I realized that some people just don't need to stay married. I was in a marriage for 25 years. It ended because I discovered an affair he was in. It wasn't until after the divorce that I found out he had had numerous affairs. As difficult as it was to get divorced, I am now happier than I have been in years. I am still single after seven years but it is my choice and I make all the choices for myself...no more doing things for the sake of my husband, or because I felt it wasn't in the best interest of our marriage. I do things I want to do, have relationships I want to have , am alone when I want to be.
I guess I am saying this because I know about the hurt that Todd feels. I know the anger, the feeling of wanting to make someone love you like they used to. It can never go back to the way it was when you had complete trust, love and devotion. My advise to anyone in a situation like thiers is to walk away while you still have some dignity and the kids are not hurt anymore. As we singles know, there are hundreds of us out there and a new relationship is right around the corner when you are ready for one. Some marriages are NOT worth fighting for. Some people are NOT worth keeping.
