Replies to '12/20 Marry Me or Else!'

If you haven't been able to get married after 13 years, "he's just not that into you!" 

Be Strong Women!!!  You don't need to have a man to be a good woman, or to have value.  You can be a whole person without a man in your life.  Don't make a man validate you.  Have confidence to live your own life the way you want to. 

I am 56 years old, and I just got married for the first time last year.  I wasn't looking, I was completely confident in who I was, and I was very happy spending time with myself.  I am happy being married, but my husband does not define me as a person.  I am able to do whatever it is I want to do, but we also have a lot of fun together.

Find someone who wants to settle down.  Believe me they are out there.  It is extremely difficult.  But, what have you got to loose?