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September 26, 2006, 10:59 pm PDT
Thank you
Quote From: luanne1961Because it sounds like he never got tested for STD's (you do know that they don't always test for herpes, you must request that test to be run) it's hard to say how long he's had it or if he even does. His refusal to get tested sounds like he could be in denial. He could have had HSV with no symptoms and never knew it. It's called asymptomatic shedding. Sounds like there are possibly more issues in your relationship but of course, infidelity being a big one. Have you tried a marriage counselor? Good luck to you :-) Thank you for the reply, I actually asked him tonight to go with me to
a marriage counselor and he agreed. We can't talk with each other
without screaming. I told him I either want to schedule an
appointment with a marriagage counselor or a divorce attorney.
His stone cold lack of affection has our marriage at an
end. He did admit to me tonight that his ex-wife told him
after their divorce that she gave him herpes, he said he didn't
think anything of it because he didn't believe her. This
could be a cover up for his infidelity. He's done so many other
things that it's hard to trust him.
Maybe a marriage counselor is the right route to go. Thanks alot
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