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September 26, 2006, 3:28 pm PDT

Why Buy The Cow When You Can Get THe Milk For Free?

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If you have to ask the question, you don't want to know the answer-- but if you have to ask the question, you probably already do know the answer.  He doesn't want to marry you.  Take care of yourself and be on your own for awhile-- and don't let the next relationship drag for 13 more years.  Consider it the most important lesson you will have ever learned.

Yeah, it's an old saying, but it says it all. What man  will want to marry a  woman when he can get his clothes washed, home cleaned, dinner cooked and if there are kids, baby-sat? Wake up, please, and know that no man will marry a woman that lives with him. How many times do we hear the story of the guy that leaves a woman after living together for 10 or more years, and marries another one?

 

Believe me, kick him to the curb, or move out if it's his house, and watch how fast that proposal will come. And if it doesn't, move on......

 

 

 
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September 26, 2006, 6:43 pm PDT

it's not that easy

Quote From: texasgirl06

If you have to ask the question, you don't want to know the answer-- but if you have to ask the question, you probably already do know the answer.  He doesn't want to marry you.  Take care of yourself and be on your own for awhile-- and don't let the next relationship drag for 13 more years.  Consider it the most important lesson you will have ever learned.

it isn't as easy as you all think to just walk away from such a long term relationship!  My heart is breaking  after all I have spent 13years of my life with this man and I love him very much.    I know it is the right thing to do - to leave that is but it is SOOO Hard!  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all didn't know what they were talking about - What kills me is why So many men are willing to take advantage of these situations and rip womens hearts out by lying for so long with the I Love You's and the I want to Marry you's with never an intent of ever going through with it !  Please at the very least be fair  and be honest save us the heartache be straight up with us and then if we choose to stay (what idiot would) Then that is our own fault!

  If I could turn back time I think I'd forego the heartache.  It's too hard to get through/

 


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