Quote From: westmoneypitAsk him if he would like to go on a date. Plan a nice evening. I suspect, because of the young kids in your house that you are not spending enough hubby/wife time. When that goes really well, that will help break the ice too. Do some things that you would have done when you were dating. Like, hold his hand in public out of the blue. Give him a kiss in the grocery store. Do something that you remember that you both like when there were not kids around. These things do not have to cost much. Schedule some time for each other only and stick to it. Good luck. There really is hope when 2 good people are just going in the wrong direction.
I talked with him last night and told him I feel that he is angry and has resentment towards me. I asked if that was true and he would not answer me. Said he did'nt want to answer me. I have no idea why he is so angry and would feel that way. I can not understand why it seems he has no desire to fight for his family. When I have tried to hold his hand it's like he becomes a board. He would rather I did not touch him. How do I get past the hurt I feel to help him. I know that he is depressed. He is totally withdrawn from me. I plan to leave today but there's so much doubt in my mind that I don't know if I can go.
