Quote From: unsatisfiedwell i mean for me the only reason i wouldnt get married is just in case i have a one percent chance with my ex again ,, BUT THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN ,, his family dont like me ,, cuz they feel im taking their brother and son away from them when they want him to help them out financially ,, and hes always there for them emotionly ,, and he at the same time cant leave or disappoint his family ,, which is pretty sad for a 30 yr old ,, so basically even if i married him there would be a big chance thatll ill be stuck in the middle and never be a priority ,, but on the other hand he was the sweetest guy ever so i did think that if we had a chance he would never let me go with out amotionally or financially ,, and that is just proving the fact that when ur in love u try not to look at the bad sides of things ,, cuz his family already told me to F*** off so what more than that do i need , and would i be happy in a situation like that ? so what am i really grieving a relationship i dreamt of cuz i only saw the good side of everything ? cuz he never introduced me to his family until he got in a car a ccident and i saw them by mistake when i went to visit him at the hospital .... sorry i talked too much but but im making myself feel better
So you're going into this marriage 99%, not 100% - not good enough!!!!!
Why don't you tell you fiancee exactly how you feel, just like you wrote in your first post and this one as well and see what he says??? He is playing second to the man you can never have. You are not ready for marriage . Period.
So what would you do if your ex came to you the night before the wedding and told you not to get married to your fiancee - what would you do???? If he told you he would marry you.
