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July 26, 2005, 9:44 am PDT
You are reaching a crisis point
Quote From: sweets537CAN ANYTHING ELSE BE ADDED TO THIS MOUND ON TOP OF ME. My husband just called and told me that his sister might be having twins. UGH...she can't even take care of the 5 year old that she has. My husband and I want to start trying but can't because of insurance reasons. All I want is my son back home. I know that I should be happy for her, but hell she pawns her poor son off on anyone who will take him. How on earth can I be happy that she is bringing more children into this world. Makes me sick. ALl she ever does is compete with us and rub things in our face. She had to get married before us, and she told everyone that she had to have a baby before we did. OMG I think I might throw up. I have got way too much anxiety. I am very concerned that you continue to react so strongly to things that are beyond your control. You have enough on your plate without adding your sister in law's issues to your own. I urge you to do something soon. You need to get some help with your anxiety and depression and they aren't going to get better by themselves. You seem to be reaching some sort of crisis point and the longer it goes without treatment, the harder it will be for you to find happiness. And please don't be mad at me for suggesting this...it's just that you are worrying me a bit. Your posts continue to show you spiraling downward and while coming to this board is great for support, I'm afraid we can't do a whole lot to fix things for you. But don't stay away from the board...please continue to keep in touch. This message wasn't intended to suggest that you quit posting. I just really want to encourage you to get a handle on this before your son comes home. The last thing you need is for your ex to start saying you aren't emotionally capable of having your son...and if he plays as unfairly in the custody game as you say he does, he will certainly use it against you.
Please, focus on YOU right now and keep in touch.
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