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Quote From: abecker_1

I am new to the board, I just need some advice about sometihing, I am not sure if this is the right topic for this room but... Any ways. I have 4 girls and the one that I am concerned about is my 4 almost five year old. She has a bad temper and she does not like going over to her fathers house. He was not involved in her life for the first 4 years just came into her life about 6 months ago, I have had problems with her ever sience she was 2 years old but the thing is she has gotten much worse she no longer listens to me, tells me that she hates me, does not like me, hits me and puches me she has so much anger towards me and It just started about a month or so ago and the only thing that has changed with in that time is that she has spent the night at her fathers house. I asked her what she did at her dads house and she said that we lay on the couch and watch tv I asked her what you do on the couch and she said we kissin I asked her what she ment and she started kissing her arms and leggs and playing with her private area. and lifted up her dress, I have also noticed that he behavior has gotten better know that he is not around so much anymore. She is behind on her speach and does not understand alot that is said to her. she has a learning disablity, not yet know what type yet.    she is seeing a theripist and I made an appointment for her but they can not get her in tell Friday and I have to tell someone before then, I will no longer let her be alone or see her father right know untel I figure out what is going on with this situation. I am just wondering if I am blowing this out of proportion if she does not understand what I am talking about. and input would be apprechated.

Quote From: abecker_1

I am new to the board, I just need some advice about sometihing, I am not sure if this is the right topic for this room but... Any ways. I have 4 girls and the one that I am concerned about is my 4 almost five year old. She has a bad temper and she does not like going over to her fathers house. He was not involved in her life for the first 4 years just came into her life about 6 months ago, I have had problems with her ever sience she was 2 years old but the thing is she has gotten much worse she no longer listens to me, tells me that she hates me, does not like me, hits me and puches me she has so much anger towards me and It just started about a month or so ago and the only thing that has changed with in that time is that she has spent the night at her fathers house. I asked her what she did at her dads house and she said that we lay on the couch and watch tv I asked her what you do on the couch and she said we kissin I asked her what she ment and she started kissing her arms and leggs and playing with her private area. and lifted up her dress, I have also noticed that he behavior has gotten better know that he is not around so much anymore. She is behind on her speach and does not understand alot that is said to her. she has a learning disablity, not yet know what type yet.    she is seeing a theripist and I made an appointment for her but they can not get her in tell Friday and I have to tell someone before then, I will no longer let her be alone or see her father right know untel I figure out what is going on with this situation. I am just wondering if I am blowing this out of proportion if she does not understand what I am talking about. and input would be apprechated.