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October 6, 2006, 6:53 am PDT

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Quote From: stepwifey

this week my brother was indicted on 5 counts of gross sexual assualt aginst his daughter. She is 15 now, was 9 when the sex started, 11 0r 12 when it ended.  He will be the 2nd family member( if found guilt) convicted of rape, he is the 3rd charged withrape ( the other relative who raped his daughter took a plea bargain for unlawfull sex contact ....) the 1st rapist in our family is serving life in prison as a serial rapist.

There are 7 total sex offenders in our family, some have  offended only  within the family and never been caught because of the families treatment towards those who speak up.

you see, my anger is mostly at those who cover up, defend, deny abuse is going on in our family.

This abuse is touching the 3rd generation now,  most of the kids (girls mostly) are showing signs of abuse.  Because they have gotten away with it it seems to encourage them to move outside the family for victims. 

Of course, me  and  those who speak up are the villians in all this for causing problems for the abusers.  My family CANT BELIEVE I would warn newbies to the family who the pervs are so they  may keep their kids safe ( most ignore me anyways)  , they think I am horrible for my disloyalty.  

At this point I want this sick family exposed in the media, then maybe they will find it harder to cover up with the world watching who they support.  They have gotten away with this for years because of the secrecy,  am I right to want it exposed ??? 

I need support from anyone out there,  I am the only rock for those suffering and I am being emotionally beat down by all who think I should stay out of it.  Imagine "normal" people telling me to let it go, you cant fight them ,it wont do any good the kids are doomed anyways...

there's a joke in maine that we're all related because of incest, maybe thats why the attitude I see in this state is so accepting and leniant on offenders.   You see, more likely than not, my brother will get a slap on the hand because the D.A. is only concerned with a conviction or plea thats leads to him being registered, jail time or a real effort at convicton over a plea is TO MUCH MONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  You wonder why victims dont come forward, the same reason everyone says dont bother with it... punishment is a joke.

I have asked DR. Phil for help & ask you ALL to pray for my family & the kids  and I pray you will see me standing up on the show blowing these people out of the water  !!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for your prayers... and I do know God has a plan... I just wish I could see that plan to know the suffering of these kids will end.   Goodwindrilling @aol.com

You are an awesome, brave person to be tackling this on your own.  Stand tall be proud.  This abuse has to stop some how.  I think you need to find others to be supportive.  What about some church in the community .  Or do you have like what i have in my home town a place

for abused people women.  It isnt just for physical violence but others as well or check out

internet site for domestic abuse .

 


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