Quote From: ladygen89I hope someone out there hears me.
I am a woman in her late 40s. I have been married from a long, long time and have children. My problem is that I have a lot of bills to pay but am nurturing the thought of going back to school for my PhD (I have a masters). Getting this PhD has been a dream of mine. The problem is that my child will soon graduate high school and be in need of funds for college. My husband would not like my going back to school because he thinks it's a waste, but I want to do it. I think if I don't follow my dream, I will regret it. But I am concerned about paying for a degree program (my job may not cover it because it is not directly related to the needs of the organization or my job.). Anyone dealing with this issue?
Education is NEVER a waste. Has your son (or your husband) ever heard of Work-Study jobs on campus? I made it through on Work-Study and my own student loans. It taught me a type of real-world responsibility none of the classes covered. Your son is young and will do fine.
YOU, dear, are also young, so off to school with you. Your organization may not pay, but--happy surprise!--there are actually scholarships out there for people returning to school, or so I've been led to believe. I urge you to talk with your chosen college/university's financial aid department. Also, you may be happy investigating to see if you can write off your courses on your taxes because they can lead to future employment. Do, please, check with a professional tax advisor or two, first.
Get that PhD and find a happiness in your life--whether it lands you a job or not. You and I both need to read Robin's book, neh! Maybe your husband needs to be reminded that you are the best thing that ever happened to him and it's his role to support you, no matter how high you want to reach. I'm sure there's a dream or two of his you've supported.
Go get, 'em, Tiger!
