Quote From: riperladyI was able to confront my father which I did not think I would ever be able to do. When I started therapy it was for me and getting on with my life I had no intentions of confronting. I had a great counselor and she helped me come to the point of confrontation. I am glad I did it, for awhile there because it was kept so quite I was beginning to wonder if it ever happened. I really do think it helped me get passed that part of my life. I would encourage it just rememeber it is for you and not the other person don't have any high expectations. Just ask what you need to know I would suggest you might write some questions or things down so you will not forget when you are in front of your perpetrator. Just a suggestion.
Confronting is a good healing tool for us. It is like you say important to remember that it is for you. Expectations are not good to cling to, because most will deny and not support you. Good for You!
mjkkas
