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October 12, 2006, 5:04 am PDT

professional services and pants

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Thank you so much. You made my husband and I giggle 'til we cried. If you (general you) don't want to be embroiled in a future child support issue keep it in your pants, or use the services of a professional. Have a great day.
The intent of the post was not to elicit humor, but rather to point out that child-support laws - in some states - encourage opportunistic women to engage in fraud. Fraud is at best unsavory behavior, in some cases criminal behavior. It is only recently that some states are accepting DNA tests in cases in court, for example, in order to substantiate paternity. In those states, there has been an enormous amount of fraud by women discovered in court, to wit, marry one man because he shows outstanding earning potential. Such a man is excellent child-support fodder. The women then chooses to have a child with another man, divorce her husband, and collect child-support from the bigger wage earner, now her ex-husband.

Certainly, the children are the most important thing. However, support of the children should be the responsibility of the biological father, the one who did not keep it in his pants, at least as far as that child was concerned. Even though he did not keep it in his pants, and was involved in an illicit relationship with a married woman, he still deserves to have an accounting of where the money goes.

In cases such as described above, the services of a professional made no difference ten years ago in states where there was no recourse, and no equal protection, for men in child-support cases.

 
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October 12, 2006, 11:35 am PDT

Giggle time.

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Thank you so much. You made my husband and I giggle 'til we cried. If you (general you) don't want to be embroiled in a future child support issue keep it in your pants, or use the services of a professional. Have a great day.

Equally amusing are women who don't see that the same thing applies to them.  If you (women)don't want to be embroiled in child support issues, keep your skirt down or give custody to the father.  For thousands of years custody of children after divorce automatically went to the father who was almost always better prepared financially to support the child. The idea that the mother should almost always get custody is a recent , much abused, sentimental notion. 

 

At the same time, women who had children outside the confines of a marriage contract were completely on their own.  It's interesting that, until about 1950, even though the birth control pill was not in use, only 3% of babies were born to unmarried women.  Now it's about 30%.

 

[b] Women play, men pay, and the children suffer.[/b]

 
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October 29, 2006, 12:15 am PDT

Wow, funny?

Quote From: bear_ta

Thank you so much. You made my husband and I giggle 'til we cried. If you (general you) don't want to be embroiled in a future child support issue keep it in your pants, or use the services of a professional. Have a great day.
Glad to see that you and your husband got a laugh fest out of the suffering and deprivation of children.
 


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