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September 8, 2005, 9:26 am PDT

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Well I don't know who to respond to first.....  I didn't mean to offend you all in my comment.  I am sorry for that.   I still think if you read the script..... It is too much information.  I do think you should deal with it.  I don't think it should be ignored.  I guess I think it should be dealt with in more private counselling.  I just don't want to know it, but you don't want me to say that....  I want to know them as whoever they are in there life and how they serve the community without knowing that.   I have over the years talked to my kids about the subject.  I think it has help protect them.   You may think that's rude, but that's how I feel and I don't mean it to be rude.  And I hope the best for you and healing of your heart.                    
If you don't hear it, know anything about it, see it, then you don't have to feel or acknowledge the pain others have.  Is that how it works?  Hide your head in the sand, don't talk about it, don't learn about it, and everything will go away, right?  Isn't that why these people on the show are feeling such pain now cause they were never acknowledged or had a chance to validate their emotions?  You're living in dreamland.  CSA victims pretend all their lives that nothing happened cause it is too painful to tell or think about cause people like you give the attitude that it doesn't matter.  These people had a lot of courage to tell their story.
 
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September 8, 2005, 11:34 am PDT

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Well I don't know who to respond to first.....  I didn't mean to offend you all in my comment.  I am sorry for that.   I still think if you read the script..... It is too much information.  I do think you should deal with it.  I don't think it should be ignored.  I guess I think it should be dealt with in more private counselling.  I just don't want to know it, but you don't want me to say that....  I want to know them as whoever they are in there life and how they serve the community without knowing that.   I have over the years talked to my kids about the subject.  I think it has help protect them.   You may think that's rude, but that's how I feel and I don't mean it to be rude.  And I hope the best for you and healing of your heart.                    

I remember Dr. Phil saying on some of his  

"Debate Dr. Phil" shows, If you don't like me  

or what I am saying here is the remote. 

  

I don't think you are rude, you are SELFISH! 

Just go ahead and keep you head in the sand  

and it will go away so you don't have to see the 

ugly stuff in this world.  

  

I don't like to watch the news and see the horrible 

circumstances in LA and yet it is there and I can't 

just say, go away! 

  

  

 


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