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October 18, 2006, 12:12 pm PDT
Keep the door locked
Quote From: henderc Dr. Phil I live the life of these people, and God knows I feel for them.I have a mother in law who has made my life hell. She comes to my house after my wife and daughter leave so no one else knows she is there and then makes wild allegations about me. Then states if I say anything she won't trust me!!! She has even go so far as to accuse me of sexually abusing my nephew knowing full well its a lie. She loves to hurt me and then says its my fault and I am just over reacting. My wife is caught in the middle but I am at the point I am ready to tell everyone in the family just what she has done to me. Last time she came to my house and made threats I tried to call the police and she said my wife would never beieve me, and at times I almost believe her. She sets it all up, comes when no one is around and then leaves before they come home. I am at a loss as to how to deal with this women and just wonder how far she is willing to go to try and ruin my life. If your MIL is setting you up with these visits, do not let her in! Why give her the opportunity to do this to you? Your door can be open when your family is there to witness whatever takes place. Especially since you're not her child. She should be visiting when her own child is at home. I went through many, many years of allowing my in-laws in whenever they so chose. I did this partly from my 'sense of duty', partly because I actually felt honored that they wanted to visit. But I ended up with no life and a million tears. FINALLY, we moved far enough away to drastically reduce the visits. Life became SO much better!
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