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October 19, 2006, 10:09 am PDT

Becca's Family is Hopeful

Quote From: chrisinhiding

 Hi everyone,
I am writing this the Sunday before the show airs. I just ran across a letter that I believe I mention to Dr. Phil that my mother in law wrote me on my Birthday. I thought it would be appropriate to share here. Because I think it shows the Cathy I know and the relationship that we have had up until the current situation. My Birthday is at the end of May and the issues with Cathy started a few weeks after that.

The Letter was written as follows:

                Happy Birthday Chris

Today may trying.

Kids are tired.

The dishes need washing.

Everyone needs something

But we cannot wait one mare day to say Happy Birthday.

I know your life has changed but so has all of ours.

You are and have been a positive addition to our lives.

You have done many things that were unbelievably selfless.

You did not think twice about getting Buford help.

You treat my grandchildren with the dignity and respect every child deserves, just ask Brianna. The other night Brandon told me he has good adults in his life. I asked who the good adults were and he said Momma, Chris, Pappa and Nanner.

We may not always see eye to eye but I think we really do, we both are used to being in charge.

I am glad you were born and I want to celebrate your birth.

Happy Birthday

Love Cathy

END OF LETTER

Just to clarify a few things in the letter. Cathy is called Nanner by the kids. My wife Rebecca and I have been together for 3 years and our 3 oldest children are from her previous marriage.  And as it mentions in the letter that Cathy and I dont always see eye to eye, She and I have agreed to disagree on several issues in the past but in no way did any previous disagreement get to any point that would cause anyone concern (Like what happened to get us in the show).

So anyway, hopfully this letter with help everyone understand the relationship Cathy and I have had in the past and let you have a little more insite when wathing the show.

Chris

Becca & Chris,

 

  I received a call from Becca's Grandma this morning, telling me that she had some family news.  Yesterday, I was traveling west on I-20 through Dallas, thinking that I wish I was back in my hotel room watching Dr Phil instead of fighting this traffic. I had no idea what I was missing and I am sorry that I did.  One of your other aunt's was watching and sounded the alarm.  I bet this site has been hit by everyone of us and we all would like for you to know that we love all of you and we know that things have been difficult, more so lately.  It is our hope that with Dr Phil's help, that he can get Cathy the help she needs.  We want to let you know that we are all here for you.  Do not be afraid that we are going to turn our backs on you for taking the measures that you have. We would never do that.  As I am sure that your mother, father and brother will be reading this, we would like for all of you to understand that you are not being judged and we are not taking sides.  We are pushing our own issues aside and giving our ears, heads and shoulders for all of you to lean on.  This is a big family so there is a lot of love and support for us to give.  All of you just have to trust and believe in us enough. 

 

All our love and support,

Your Entire Family.

 


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