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October 16, 2006, 7:54 am PDT
10/17 What Would Robin Do?
Quote From: soccergirl2I saw Robin this morning on the Crystal Cathedral and many things she said stuck with me so this is my What would Robin do question.
I have been married for 3 1/2 years and I have a 9 month old son. My husband hates if I spend anytime with my family. I have to fight with him everytime I want to see my mom, dad, brothers or grandparents. This has caused me to be extremely resentful towards him as I feel he is controlling me. I have a great relationship with my family and would love to have them just "drop in" for coffee but he comes up with an argument even if they are just coming by to drop something off. I have been seeing a councilor in regards to the matter but he refuses to go. I don't want to break up our family but how long can I go on. This uy is a conrol freak and no way would I allow him to control me, let him gruno and complain, go see your family. I beleive the marriage relationship comes first but that doesn't mean that family does'nt come into the picture, tell him to chill or go get a life while you are at yourfamilies house, if he loves you, then he start respecting you and getting over himself.
It's good that you are going to counseling, continue to help your self but you are not goin gt o change, he has to do that but you don't have to be his doormat, he is manipulating you and controlling you, stand up for yourself....................
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