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October 18, 2006, 1:40 pm PDT
I DO NOT AGREE
Quote From: fluffyfatI hate to see all the young women automatically side with each other against the older woman.
I also hate to see the men blamed for not siding with their wives. The MIL is the woman who gave birth to him, raised him, sacrificed for him and walked the floors with him when he was sick. Of course he should treat her with respect.
Todays MIL's were obviously nasty but for all we know the younger women were too. They sit through these shows with a smug expression on their faces as though they have no ownership in all this. My MIL wasn't perfect -- she was sometimes critical and intrusive -- but I bit my lip and let these small things pass for the sake of family peace and so that my children would have the loving presense of their grandmother in their lives.
I really don't think these young women would be called names for absolutely no reason. There has to have been some nastiness on their part, also. WELL, I REALLY DON'T AGREE WITH YOU.....YES THE MIL GAVE BIRTH TO THEIR CHILD, BUT IN THE BIBLE IT SAYS TO PUT YOUR SPOUSE FIRST.....MY MIL IS A COMPLETE BITCH AND I AM A YOUNG MOTHER AND SHE HAS A PROBLEM WITH ME JUST BECAUSE MY SIL HAS A PROBLEM IN LAW WITH ME. MY SIL USED TO LOVE ME TO DEATH AS LONG AS I SPENT ALL MY TIME GOING SHOPPING AND HELPING HER WITH HER KIDS, WELL AS MY HUSBANDS AND MINE RELATIONSHIP CHANGED, AND WE GREW CLOSER, SHE HATED IT AND CONSTANTLY CAUSE PROBLEMS, THEN SHE BROUGHT MY MIL IN IT AND MY MIL STARTED, SO I DEFENED MYSELF LIKE I WAS TAUGHT AND LIKE MY HUSBAND TOLD ME TOO.
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