Quote From: rianashleyI really doubt you are in love. You are in lust. There is no way a 16 year old child (yes, child, he is not a young man). We all know that a 16 year old is not capable of handling adult issues. I and my friends were 16 and could never handle issues or situations the way a mature adult would handle them. You certainly have issues if you believe a 16 years old can be on the same mental level as an 24 year old adult.
What you said is what I was trying to make a point about in my other post..... You're telling that woman that she's in lust, not love but the TRUTH is that you, nor anyone else, REALLY KNOW how she & this young man (& yes, I said young man, if he's old enough to drive & work then he's NOT a child!) feel! NOBODY can know for SURE how other people feel, only THEY know what they feel & if they really feel they're in love than who are you, I or anyone else to say otherwise? Also, who are you, I or anyone else to decide whether someone of a certain age is capable of handling a certain situation/issue or not? That's another thing that you (generally speaking) can't decide for someone else. No one person handles something the EXACT same way as someone else. So I don't think it's fair to say that someone who's 16 isn't capable of handling whatever situation they're in just because of they're age. Anyway, if in another month, year or even day, this woman & this young man decide that they're not in love, then fine, that's on them but either way, they're both consenting to the relationship & it shouldnt be anyone else's business.
