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November 2, 2006, 4:00 pm PST
Hurting Love
Quote From: richard_woodsHi H-Love...
I always hesitate to respond to posts like this, because my replies aren't usually what people want to hear. I am sure you will find people here who will enable your behavior pattern by offering you cookie cutter, tree hugging rhetoric, and (in my opinion) do you more harm than good...
If you want that, do not reply to me.
But if you want a no B.S. reply, and I can only promise you ONE thing...HONESTY....one that will will no doubt force you to face some things you may not want to confront, and probably make you feel worse in the short term, and if you aren't afraid of getting your feelings hurt because *that* is often the by-product of honesty...please ask...
It's not my intention to hurt *anybody*...but sometimes the truth can hurt kiddo...sometimes its part of the healing process.. I don't want to hear what people think sounds good, I need the hard core truth. I would encourage a reply no matter how it may make me feel at first. I'm sure you're intentions are well.
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