Replies to '06/01 Home Wreckers'

True, but in my marriage, we have faced two EXTREMELY stressful dilemmas. But with our faith in God.......we have gotten through them. Even with the X trying to weasel in. My spouse took care of that and we are still Very happy in our marriage. One's limits are what we all make of them........with this,  there will be  no room for cracks for others to get in.......

I have the exact same situation as Lisa except my husband has two children by two different women. My husband is a great father to my kids and his. One of the mother's is ok. The other is impossible to tolerate. Sheis making my marriage a living hell. She moved out of state without telling my husband. He has seen his son twice in two years. Just recently, he saw him. She makes it  living hell for my husband to get him. My husband avoids her to keep down confusion and to be able to see his son.  I understand that. But should I be harassed by her because he refuses to seek legal advice? This hasbeen going on for three years. And that's how long we've been married. I love my husbandand don not care what he has to do to see his children, but I should not be harassed in the process. I feel that he should protect me from that. I am sooooo tired of this drama in my life. I have an ex husband. He is not the best father, but don't have much conflict. He has never done anything to harass  my husband. This woman calls my house, my cell phone, my job, my husband's cell phone and his job cursing us out.. We have both been in trouble on our jobs because of her.  I have messages where she has done such. I want out and at this point my husband does too because he feels that he don't have to do anything about her harassment.