I have been married for the last 27 years to 2 different women. The last was 16 years. I found that Marriage takes 2 people. I wanted to be married and make it last but apparently the mates I chose had different ideas of what a long term marriage was. No trust, No communications, No sex for 12-18 months at a time. just because she was "Upset" at me.
My Mom would say just because there is Snow on the peaks dosn't mean there aint fire in the mountain. Not that I want to run out into another relationship.
But I am really hurt, But i have had over a year IN the relationship to make up my mind what to do and how to protect my heart.
You know what is in your heart, You know what you have and you hang onto it for all you have. Keep talking, and when there is a disagreement, do not let the sun set without an apology and making up. Sometimes that is the best part of the argument.
