Quote From: lilacmessQuit school. I'm serious. Either this or your husband has to get a new job. Something to put the two of you on the same schedule. Your marriage has to be your top priority. It's supposed to outlast everything, right. It won't if you keep denying your husband. His porn use will escalate into full-blown adultery. Porn use has a way of doing this. You'veobviously placedthe sexualpart of your relationship on the back burner and made it a very low priority.Yourrelationshipshould be your number one priority, above even your child.And honestly,I would say the lastthing in the world you both need right now is another baby.You don't even have time for the sex that is necessaryto make another baby. I know this all sounds very harsh but I couldn't be more serious. You're married now.Your marriage, and this goes for both of you, has to become more important than the perfect job, the perfect education, etc. And I'm a college teacher, so I understand the importance of a college education. And still, I'm advising you to put your marriage first instead.
Thanx lilac,
It's not harsh. After I posted that message my husband called his work and found out that he might be getting a promotion as early as today (7-27) and he won't be working overnight anymore. As crazy as it sounds, we're both going to school to try and make more time for our family. He and I need to talk to each other more, but when I try, he doesn't seem very receptive. About the only time it works for us is right before he leaves for work. Not the best time.
Sigh, maybe I'll take all my books he's reading and hid them (as well as the TV remotes) so all we have to do is talk and spend time with each other. Hmm. . . . I'll ponder that one today.
Thanx again.
