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Quote From: yurmajesty

I have watched this scenario a thousand times with female friends who have worn themselves to exhaustion trying to be "pretty enough" to keep their straying boyfriends/ husbands home. Most of these women, apart from their looks, are co-dependent leaches who suck the ife out of their partner by revolving their entire lives around him. No matter what you tell them, they continue their own disasterous behavior and place all the blame on their misbehaving husbands. I have seen women get plastic surgery, breast augmentations, hair extensions and go into extreme debt trying to look good on the outside, and will not spend one dime getting the help they need on the inside. I used to say " if a man is a cheater, he will always be a cheater regardless", but after I've seen the unhealthy behavior of so many women, I have to wonder if that statement is far too general. I now believe that if women would stop acting like ticks on a dog, and develop their own interests, lives and self esteem apart from their men, the men just might find them too interesting and wonderful to stray away from them. Too many women spend too much time male bashing instead of taking a good long look in the mirror of their own destructive behavior. Outward appearance may intitially attract a man, but he will need much more than a pretty little leach too keep his interest over the long haul. I have found that men are actually intelligent and need to be stimulated intellectually as well as physically, so get off the "boo hoo" bandwagon and get a life rather than trying to live off your partner's energy, affection, approval etc... (from a female who has developed a new perspective on things)