you are so right in so many ways! I am recently married, but had known my husband for 6 years prior to us getting together. He always tells me he wanted me back then... i was 20kg lighter and hadnt had a child... but now he says he loves me for the person i have become. Sure, he was attracted to the looks 6 years ago, but did he love me then?? No, all he wanted was a fling with a gorgeous girl.. he couldnt see past the exterior. Now, however, he tells me every day how gorgeous I am and how much he appreciates having an intelligent and attractive wife.
I have down days, what woman doesnt? But all i have to think about is how my husband thinks i am the sexiest, most intelligent woman he has ever met.... all the insecurities are left far behind.
If your man cant love and support you for who you are, regardless of how you look, then he dosnt deserve you.
