Quote From: eagleyecpPlease do not get me wrong, If this father is abusing his daughter, he should go to jail for the rest of his life. But, If it is proven that this mother or anyone else is coaching this little girl, she needs to go to jail to. My brother has three kids and is a pretty high ranking soldier in the Army. During a custody battle which got real ugly his daughter accused him of sexual abuse. After the civilian courts found that she had been coached by her mother. (she finally confessed as much) Then the Army began it's own investigation. That was almost eight years ago. This investigation also cleared my brother of any wrong doing. But that information is still in his personell jacket with the Army and still comes to light everytime he is up for a promotion or an award of any kind. My neice has also suffered because of this. She was only a small girl but she carries alot of guilt for this and their relationship has never been the same. She is now 18 but the scars seem brand new. A child as young as 3 will eventually believe that this has happened to them IF they are being coached, and suffer the same problems for the rest of their lives that they would have had if it had actually happened. That is why I think if the child has been coached in any way, the person doing the coaching should also face criminal charges for abuse. The results are the same. For everyones sake especially this little girl, I hope the truth comes out and this girl gets the help she needs.
I couldn't have said it better.
The results ARE the same and it IS abuse when a parent coaches/brainwashes. We are living it.
Thank you, for you comments. Even though it hurts my husband (and me) so very much, it is almost comforting to know that we are not alone. We yearn to have this problem with his "ex" resolved. It has been over eight years and that time cannot be regained.
We are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. (And we are pretty sure it isn't another train!)
The recovery for all will be long, expensive, and difficult, but we look forward to it!