Quote From: jahluvsShe is right, however she still has more research and studying of the Bible to do if she truly wants to please God. I don't believe she was being judgmental toward anyone else, just stating what she believes the bible to say. Eph. 5:10, 11: "Keep on making sure of what is acceptable to the Lord; and quit sharing with them in the unfruitful works that belong to the darkness, but rather, even be reproving them." Remember, the Bible does say that the wages of sin are death.
The bible tells us not to take part in "traditions of man" or to be making festivals of seasons, etc.
A genuine love for Jehovah [God and a strong desire to be pleasing to him will help a person break free from unchristian practices that may have had emotional appeal. A person who really knows and loves Jehovah [God does not feel that by shunning practices that honor false gods or that promote falsehood he is in any way deprived of happiness. Genuine love causes him to rejoice, not over unrighteousness, but with the truth. See 1 Corinthians 13:6. (information taken from Reasoning from the Scriptures)
We don't need traditions of society to dictate to us how or when to be giving or kind. Charity begins at home and occurs on a daily basis as is needed -our neighbors, our friends, our families, and others with whom we come in contact.
As for me, I would much rather put my efforts toward pleasing God rather than man. Man has no power over my eternal life, but God does!
I leave you all with this thought: The bible tells us that if we continue seeking the truth, it will find us.
The bible tells us not to take part in "traditions of man" or to be making festivals of seasons, etc.
Well...that's dull...I don't understand the point of that rule...you'd think God would like to see people celebrate together and get along and smile and treat each other nicely...