Replies to 'Pornography'

I am not a wife who lays in bed waiting for my husband. I often approach him to initiate (which he enjoys), but I have to request that he try to seduce me once in a while. I get tired of waiting around on him to initiate with me. When all of this (I found the porn and he admitted to masturbating to it)came down I had to ask him how he would feel if I went behind his back and masturbated to images of naked men. He said that he wouldn't like me to do that. He has told me many times that he does not ever want to share me - that means physically and emotionally or mentally. I feel the same way about him. I am ready to try new things - but it's hard todo thatwhen someone repeatedly and on purpose tries to decieve you. Doesn't make me want to rip my clothes off for him when I've caught him in a lie. Not a real big turn-on for me.

As mentioned before, it is very sad that porn has filtered down so much into our culture. We have a 5 year oldson and a daughter who isn't even one year old yet. I think about the kind of world that they are growing up in - and how kids are growing up so fast. I worry for them.